The
option of surrogacy offers a possibility for parenthood
that was previously non-existent. However, this option also
represents important psychological, ethical, moral and legal
issues that need to be carefully considered. Anyone contemplating
this should obtain as much information as possible, and
seek guidance from both counselors and physicians in determining
the best path to parenthood.
It
is important that all parties involved are comfortable with
the situation prior to the implantation of a surrogate to
ensure a positive outcome. It is also important that everyone
involved has carefully considered the full implications
and is comfortable with the entire process. The issue of
confidentiality should be addressed as well as the extent
of the relationship after birth, if any, between the child
and the donor or surrogate and must be determined prior
to starting treatment. A surrogate can be known or anonymous
and, clearly, there are a number of issues concerning this
that should be carefully considered. It is essential that
all parties consent in writing to any procedure. The consent
must clarify the commitment of the surrogate to relinquish
all rights and responsibilities of raising the child, and
state that the infertile woman is the legal mother.
We
at Families Through Surrogacy, LLC
have first-hand experience as surrogates and feel that experience
can help you to easily navigate the complex issues of surrogacy
while assisting you throughout the process of realizing
your dream of children. Our surrogates are responsible,
empathetic women who look forward to the experience of helping
an infertile couple have a child of their own. The couple
and surrogate both receive the benefit of our experience
as well as encouragement and the full support of our staff.
We
realize that this is a big decision and are committed to
serving your needs while helping you to feel comfortable
with every step of the process. We know how important it
is to keep you informed and to be available to quickly resolve
any issues that may arise while giving you the needed support.
Please feel free to contact us anytime to discuss any questions
you may have or to help you determine if surrogacy is a
good option for you.